Dreams? What are they? :x

BlogpostPublished: Oct 21, 2011Views: 694

It’s been two nights that i have dreamt about me getting back my ex and honestly it’s so frustrating :(...Yeah I admit, I’m not that over her TOTALLY since we broke up I think almost a year now..Why I’m still not over her TOTALLY you ask? I do not know either, maybe because I was too serious on her...Man; I gave everything to her the best that I could to make her happy ALWAYS. My friends knew how much sacrifice I did just for her and God knows how much I really love her... But I guess that’s just the way life is, at any time, everything can change even people’s feelings, I think it’s the most complex and unstable thing in the world. I have been trying my best to move on and then what? She just came in to my dreams and saying she’s wants me back? That is just so insane, I don’t want to keep my hopes up again just because of those DREAMS… I’ve had enough… It’s too painful and I don’t think I can take it anymore… every day I am hoping and praying that I would be over her soon COMPLETELY. I can say I am a bit okay now until those dreams appeared! It’s really bothersome :(… I had stopped thinking of her the past few months and just because of that DREAM it’s like I’m back to the very beginning of forgetting her. And I tell you, it’s too DAMN painful… I just thank my friends who are always there for me for they made me strong enough to face REALITY.

I just don’t get it, life took away the one I love and I have accepted it, that we can never be and then gave me that DREAM? Seriously, what are dreams? What do they represent? :(

xhaii ∙ Nov 1, 2011

hey rose! I really thank you for reading this! and for answering my question about dreams..and thanks for the encouragement $\:D$ So, we've experienced the same huh, its nice to know that someone understands me not because they know love and all but someone who knows it because they also gone through it $\:D$ ..I also divert my attention to writing and spending time with my family and friends! We have a lot in common.lol..I know I will never forget her.But what I really want to forget is the feeling.I know in time, everything will be alright..I really thank you rose! $\;\)$

rosenoire87 ∙ Oct 31, 2011

$\:\($ I can so relate to this, I've been trying to get over someone for a very long time now, it was hard but its easier now that I distract myself with other things (like writing) and spending more time with friends and family.
As for the meaning of dreams, that's still one of life's mysteries isnt it? It can be frustrating to dream about an ex.
Maybe you should think of it as a test, each time something reminds you of her or you dream about her you will feel sad or frustrated and that's normal but eventually those feelings will die down. It's just testing your strength and indirectly making you stronger.  It takes different people different lenghts of time to heal but everyone knows the moment they are healed. Maybe for you that will be the day you dream about her and wake up without feeling sad or frustrated about it, you will simply shrug and carry on with your day and that's when you know you're over her.